Marriage Health Assessment

1. My partner really listens to and understands me.

2. My partner satisfies my need for loving physical contact (hugging, touching, kissing, holding hands – other than when we are initiating or having sex).

3. My partner treats me with dignity and respect.

4. If I were to do it all over again, I would get involved with my partner.

5. I feel appreciated.

6. I don’t have difficulty expressing opinions that are different from my partners because he/she treats me with respect and honor.

7. My partner is there for me in hard times.

8. I am satisfied with how we resolve our conflicts within the relationship.

9. I am satisfied with how money is spent.

10. We often do fun things together.

11. My partner is fine with me spending time alone with my friends.

12. We still have a lot of passion in our relationship.

13. My partner thinks I am fun to be with.

14. When I have self-doubts, my partner encourages me and tries to lift me up.

15. We trust each other a great deal.

16. I know my partner will never leave me.

17. I find that we resolve our arguments to my satisfaction.

18. When we initially disagree about a decision to be made, I am content with the way we work it out.

19. I look forward to our time together.

20. My partner puts our relationship ahead of all others.

21. My partner cares if I am upset or sad.

22. When I am upset about an aspect of our relationship, my partner is open to discussing it.

23. My partner is supportive of the career choice I have made (quitting a job in order to get additional training, or living with the help of social assistance).

24. My partner still finds me desirable.

25. I feel my partner makes a lot of effort (regardless of its adequacy) to fulfill my emotional needs.

 

Disclaimer: I understand that this assessment is for informational purposes only and cannot substitute for a full evaluation by a qualified marriage/relationship professional. The assessment should only be used as a guide to understanding the healthy of your relationship and the potential need to see a professional.