Denver and Littleton Counselors

Female Sex & Love Addiction Assessment Questionnaire

Are you concerned about your sexual behaviors or multiple relationships?  

This Female Sex Addiction Questionnaire is an initial assessment designed to help you determine whether you have a problem with sexual “addictive” behaviors or love/relationship addictions. Please read through each question, click on the Yes or No answer, and click next for the next question. Your responses should be based on your current behaviors and thinking.

Take a few moments to complete this confidential, free, no-obligation Female Sex Addiction Questionnaire (25 Questions / 5 Questions per page).

To begin, please enter your contact information below so we can email you the full report. If you desire, you can also request a counselor to contact you.

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1. Were you abused or emotionally neglected as a child or adolescent?
2. Have you ever had sex with someone just because you were feeling aroused and later felt ashamed or regretted it?
3. Do you have trouble maintaining relationships once the “sexual newness” of a new partner has worn off?
4. Have you stayed in romantic relationships after they become emotionally or physically abusive?
5. Have you had certain kinds of sex or had sex with certain people that later disgusted you or you regretted (felt shame)?
6. Do you feel that your sexual behavior or romantic pursuits is not normal?
7. Have you violated your marriage vow or other relationship commitment by having sex or affairs with others?
8. Have you made promises to yourself or others to change or stop some of your sexual behavior, and then broken these promises?
9. Do you ever feel bad about your sexual behavior, flirting, or relationship pursuits?
10. Has your sexual behavior, infidelity, or relationship pursuits ever created problems for you and your family?
11. Have you ever sought help for sexual behavior, infidelity, or pursuit of relationships that you did not like?
12. Have you ever worried about people finding out about your sexual activities, flirting, or other behaviors that are inappropriate?
13. Has anyone ever been hurt emotionally by events related to your sexual behavior, e.g. lying to partner, cheating on a partner, leaving a relationship to pursue another one, etc?
14. Have you ever participated in sexual activity in exchange for money or gifts?
15. Have you ever potentially exposed a partner or spouse to a sexually transmitted disease?
16. Have you made efforts to quit a type of sexual activity (sex, affairs, flirting) and failed?
17. Do you hide some of your sexual behavior (sex, affairs, flirting) from others?
18. Do you find yourself having multiple romantic relationships at the same time?
19. Have you ever felt degraded by your sexual behavior or romantic relationship?
20. Does your sexual desire cause you to associate with people you wouldn’t normally be with or do things you wouldn’t usually do?
21. Before your sexual behavior, or pursuit of a romantic relationship, you want it, but afterwards you regret it?
22. Has your sexual activity or pursuit of romantic relationships interfered with your relationship, family, occupation, or personal values?
23. Do you feel controlled by your sexual desire or fantasies of romance?
24. Do you have a habit of trying to get forbidden looks at people that give you sexual excitement?
25. Do you believe that you are a sex and/or love addict?

Disclaimer: I understand that this assessment is for informational purposes only and cannot substitute for a full evaluation by a clinical professional; the assessment should only be used as a guide to understanding your sexual behavior and the potential consequences associated with that behavior.

Thank you for completing our Female Sex / Love Addiction Assessment Questionnaire.

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